Depression in Families

Families often feel helpless in the face of depression, especially if the depressed family member refuses to communicate meaningfully. The family might react by in turn withdrawing from the sufferer, almost frightened to be perceived as "interfering". Alternatively they might exhort the sufferer to "just pull up those socks" or "look on the bright side".

But of course none of these things have any positive effect, and sometimes merely make things worse.

Because depression impacts so damagingly on everyone in the family, it is a family matter - not just a matter for the sufferer. Depression can be life or death, and life and death issues well and truly take precedence over privacy issues! So while you might be trying to avoid upsetting the depressed person in order to keep their stress levels down, this won't extend to avoiding demands to get treatment.

But many times families can work together to ensure against the development of depression, or to quickly turn depression around when it does arise, if only they understand the crucial role played by important lifestyle factors.

For instance although the estimation of fluid requirements have been somewhat overstated in the past, we still find people presenting with depression solely due to dehydration. Immediately the sufferer starts eating and drinking normally, the depression magically disappears.

Likewise a lack of adequate physical activity can create a deeply depressed state, complete with the full range of depression symptoms, like sleeping difficulty, digestive upsets or constipation/diarrhoea, dry skin, hair loss, extreme fatigue, etc. Simply by introducing a brisk 30-minute walk each day, in the company of at least one other person, you may gain a rapid improvement!

Altogether there are around 17 lifestyle errors associated with depression, but these "errors" have become so common now that families and even whole communities regard them as normal! To protect yourself and your family against depression, you need to pay careful attention to the check list and make changes that support a healthy body and brain!

Because depression rates are escalating so quickly, we need to do something rather urgently, and for that reason the book "17 Solutions" outlining the lifestyle mistakes and describing the answers, is freebie for anyone who wants to resolve depression in their family.

But there's more to depression than lifestyle factors, as crucial as they are! Typically the depressed person will have developed an habitual, depressed thinking style and these thoughts and feelings serve to hold the depression in place. The family can be at least a little helpful here by remaining caring, but firm. By all means hear the depressed person out, but not the same stories over and over again. Be compassionate, but do your best to be a role model of someone who is fully engaged with life, and living healthfully and happily.

In addition professional therapy is a must and this should involve the new BMSA (brief, multi-sensory activation) techniques which have proven to be so beneficial in helping people to change thinking patterns quickly.

BMSA is suitable for both self-help and professional therapy, and in most cases the therapist will encourage supervised use of the technique in between sessions. The book "Relieving Depression - Quickly, Easily and Safely" has been written for health professionals and clients alike.

Other factors may also play a role in depression and the professional therapist will ask a host of questions that can help identify where to place attention and effort. He/she will help the sufferer to think about what choices are available, and how improvement may be made so that problems are solved much more satisfactorily.

Most people are well aware of privacy legislation and the fact that therapy is private. Normally your therapist may not disclose to ANYONE what occurs in therapy, other than their supervisor, and then only in a way that does not identify the client. However when suicidality is an issue the therapist is required by law to get written permission to pass specific information to specific people, in order to protect the client.

The therapist will certainly want to help the sufferer to return to a happy and fulfilling life, but in the meantime must take all possible action to ensure he/she survives.

If you or your family member has been prescribed drugs for depression, make sure everyone knows that sudden withdrawal is to be avoided because of the potential for severe and dangerous side-effects. In particular the SSRI's actually change the way serotonin behaves in the brain, and some people react by reducing the amount of serotonin they produce. When the drug is withdrawn, this reduction in serotonin can be catastrophic.

The main point of this article has been that by attending to lifestyle issues and also to depressed, habitual thinking styles, depression can be resolved very quickly, and also permanently, provided you avoid disproven therapies such as "talk" therapies, or CBT (cognitive behaviour therapy) styles. Purchase a comprehensive manual on depression treatment, work with a good therapist, and also look out for excellent information and support on the net.

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The free manual "17 Solutions" is of crucial interest to families with a depressed family member. Likewise the free manual "Stop Wishing and Start GETTING" demonstrates how rapidly unwanted thoughts and feelings can be eliminated with BMSA.

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